So a question arises: Is there a way to "learn so much" without having to spend many months investing in a person that is destined to be a GONE? "Well, I learned so much" is the response we often hear from singles reflecting on their GONEs. Why is that? One reason is that some singles believe they must learn through experience to know if it will work long-term. Many believe that in order to evaluate the potential for marriage, they must invest in intense dating-relationships.
What's a top reason many marriage-minded singles (MMS) find themselves in go-nowhere entanglement (GONE TM) that lasts months or years? Entanglements that often consume their 20s and beyond only to leave them back where they began.